How do I stop having work crushes because I only keep getting disappointed almost every day as I keep seeing they don’t like me back and won’t ever ask me out?

Looks aren't everything but it does matter because that's how we identify what are attraction is, how we identify a person regardless.

Someone will end up quitting bc you're working, seeing each other when you shouldn't be around each other because you're grieving, need to be away from each other.

Angela

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Let's be blunt, get straight to the point because you're really fucking pissing me off. I asked him if you want your ex still, he said no. I said..that's a lie because you keep talking about her I'm the one who's stuck listening to it.

I don't think it's a good idea anyways , to be dating someone you work with. The problem is what if you do end u going out, then you break up?!.

I ended up telling my friend about him, she asked me if you want me to ask him out for you, talk to his best friend about setting you guys up?. I said yea, cool. She's like well let's see if he's even sexually drawn to you, if he wants to know youor even knows if you're alive?.

Why do we still feel attached or jealous when a covert narcissist moves on, even after realizing their toxicity and the suffering they caused?

At the time of trying to figure me out, I was actually stocking some stuff, had this cute express present dress with bleach blonde hair, some black mark jane shoes, my dress was so pretty. It was black with cream lace around it.

When we went out he told me he liked blondes more, that having fake blonde hair is like starring at a blonde hair chick. All he did was vent, talk about hating his ex. I asked him if you still like your ex because you won't shut up about her to me?.

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Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

I knew he was trying to get rid of me, stupid me o chose to cling on because his best friend told me, wanted me to be some occupational therapist to him, all I want is my boyfriend to want me, be so into me.

His weakness drove me nuts, I couldn't stand it. The shit he was saying to me was so selfish, just rude to me.

I came to a conclusion that it's not good to go out with someone you work with, that it will cause a distraction, a dramatic atmosphere.

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She felt it's going no where, i guess she still has feelings for her ex as well. She dumped my ex, then quit because she couldn't stand how I don't care.

Anyways, I was so happy he found me sexually attractive but when we hanged out, got to know him. I realized that what I have done wasn't a good idea, that this guy isnt my type inward. I couldn't stand his temperament. I found out I'm the rebound girl because I'm sick of him dwelling on his ex girlfriend, that asking a guy out wasn't smart because the guy should ask the girl out.

I had gotten over him, surely I found out this girl went out with him to spite me, gain attention on herself. She was some nasty attention seeker who was a bully towards me

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Her face looks like something like the cabbage patch doll, is just straight up ugly. An her mind is just dumb, not bright in the head. Her heart is just pompous, stuck up like a nasty valley girl.

His friend saw me, said oh. Yeah. She's cute. To his best friend who was my crush. My crush at the time was shy, told my friend I like your friend too, is interested in knowing, going out with her.

I don't care if she's screwing the ex from the past because it isn't spite at me. This chick is so fucking ugly with her face, she's ditsy underneath.

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What about my feelings, hurting me?. Don't I matter?. Doesn't anyone care about me, how I feel about him wanting me?. I should've been the one to dump him but he did it instead.

I was stupid to just wanna have a boyfriend at the time, my only interaction I had was at work. It's been about a year since I've been out of a relationship, I ended up wanting a new love. This was the year between 2002 to 2003 when I had my situation of dating someone from work.

I'm like why the fuck is your new girl stalking me, is jealous of my face. I accept the rejection, I'm not clinging on. This girl wanted to fight with me for no reason, kept mimicking me. She kept mimicking my hair styles, hair cuts, trying to mimick my clothes.

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But yea I had no idea what this co workers mind was like, what his heart was like. I saw him, said yea…I wanna go out with him, I do have a crush.

Anyways, he ended up dumping me at a park, I broke down crying. It lasted for about a week, that was it. The aggression, wanting me isn't mutual. I couldn't stand this guy's quiet ness, secretive behavior. He didn't ask me out, so what the hell do I expect?. Then his best friend had the nerve to tell me to be sympathetic about him grieving about his ex, how I should care for him?. I'm like why the fuck should I be in a relationship with your friend if he still has feelings for his ex?.

But yes … it's also not good for anyone to ask out someone without investigating, withholding your feelings in before asking the person out. They could be dwelling on a ex still, is on the rebound or it's mentally ill or has a evil heart.

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With me, I have dated a guy before from work and it wasn't good. It was good that he saw me, validated my “crushing”, was happy of saying “yes” to asking him out, having my friend do the match making for me.

But yea… as time went on I have ended up with a new love, he was just as bad. He was dwelling on his Asian ex, was a jerk to me.

Now..till this day she's around again, we're both the ex but now she's fooling around with this ex, are friends with benefits which I don't care.

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My friend was so happy, pleased that it's mutual of wanting to go out with each other. My friend gave me the news, my crush took the confidence to approach me, we started to chat. He was very nervous, why around me an blushing.

Sadly, after I approached it he dumped me, I cried an accepted the dump. But the way he dumpede made believe it's something I did wrong, I need to fix it. So..I became attached to him, finally I stopped. He said he wasn't ready for a relationship, next thing you know he ended up going out with some blonde hair girl who was spiteful at me, a stalker .

Anyways, I'm the quiet, shy type . I just ended up minding my business, what happen was my crush, his best friend showed up, was spying on me, wanted to see who I was?.

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My best solution for you is to no daye someone you work with, unless you're planning to quit and has another job lined up.

Finally, she snapped and got pissed off that I don't care that she's with my ex boyfriend, actually ended up dumping him because of me.

Anyways, I'm the jealous type. Like any girl would react or women about getting mad about some guy it's with, talking and listening about it's ex. I mean..I don't really care because I don't. But you shouldn't be going out with me if you're on the rebound dwelling over your ex.

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